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There is a great emphasis today on "rights."
"I have my right
and I am going to insist on them,"
is a position commonly heard.
This attitude strikes at
the very heart of love and intimacy
because it makes it so difficult for people
to consider someone else's needs first.
今天人們都很強調『權益』，
我們常常會聽到『我有我的權益、我要堅持我的權益』。
但這樣的態度，卻是會直接影響到
人與人之間、愛與親密的關係，
因為人們不再會先去考慮到別人的需要。
— by Josh McDowell
from his book『The Secret of Loving』
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