Disciplining someone in the way of the Lord and controlling or manipulating that person are two entirely different things. Disciplining should happen. Controlling should not - whether you are a minister or a manager or a mother.
按神的心意去『教養、訓練』一個人, 與去『控制、操縱』一個人是完全不同的。 『愛心的紀律』是需要的, 但『統制的慾望』是不可有的, 無論是傳道人、經理、或是母親。
— by Josh McDowell from his book『The Secret of Loving』
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