Listening with empathy means you listen without interruption and you listen for fears and feelings. You listen for what they aren’t saying. You’re not trying to fix the situation. Sometimes healing comes just by listening!
有同理心的『傾聽』, 是聆聽而不會去打斷, 是願意聆聽對方的感覺、與所害怕的, 也會去聽對方所沒有說出來的。 真正的聆聽,不會急著想要去解決對方的問題。 其實有時只要單單的『傾聽』、就會帶來醫治。
— by Pastor Rick Warren from Daily Hope 『You Can’t Love People Without Listening to Them』 on 2019/04/25
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