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The problem with too many people,
regardless of age, is that
they either don’t understand
or don’t accept the fact that
life involves a certain amount of hardship.
They fight against it
instead of adjusting to it.
They grumble and complain,
both to themselves and others,
about the magnitude of their problems.
They talk as if their difficulties are unique,
and seem to feel that life is easier
for everyone else.
太多的人有個共同的問題，無論他們年紀為何，
就是他們不了解、或是不願意接受、
『在生命中是會遇見艱難困苦』這件事實。
他們總是去抗拒、而不是去調適。
他們對自己、對別人，埋怨、抱怨所遭遇的困難。
這些人總以為自己所受的苦是獨特的，
而別人的生命都比他們的簡單、比他們的好。
— by Hal Urban
from his book 『Life's Greatest Lessons: 20 Things That Matter』
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