Companioning is about walking alongside; it is not about leading. Companioning is about listening with the heart; it is not about analyzing with the head. Companioning is about discovering the gifts of sacred silence; it does not mean filling up every moment with words.
『陪伴』是陪在對方身邊,而不是帶領對方前行。 『陪伴』是用心靈去聆聽,而不是用腦力去解析。 『陪伴』是給予靜默的禮物,而不是喋喋不休的言語。
— by Alan D. Wolfelt from his article 『Eleven Tenets of Companioning the Bereaved』
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