When our identity is wrapped up in whether or not we are perceived as successful, we are set up for the approval addiction. Our sense of self is on the line.
當我們的自我認知、自我價值, 是建立在自己是否被視為『成功』上, 我們很容易就會陷溺在『追求別人的認可』中, 對自我的看法也就常常沈浮在疑慮裡。
— by John Ortberg from his book『The Life You've Always Wanted』
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